What a
feeling it is to wrap your arms around your newly born. That little bundle of
joy, who we’ve got into this competitive world.
To
teach that growing child the ways of life. And the values he/she carries
on,Man, What a tough job all this is.
PARENTING
We,
parents are our children’s first primary teachers. We are the ones who should
set the best examples for them.
P
Patience positive praise
A
Attention
R
Reasoning
E Educating
N
Nursing
T
Trusting Tolerant
I Impartial
N
Nourishing
G
Guiding
Disicipline,
fiscal awareness, making them responsible citizen and many such other qualities
need to be imbibed in them. The number one thing that is most important to a
child is attention and love. Attention be it negative or positive, the child
will do whatever it takes to get it. Also, we have to give them unconditional
love. Teaching them about love and loving them, are two different ways of looking
at love, both play their own part. We have two lovely children, both of them
are totally different in nature, so is their focus in life, their attitude and
dedication. We, as parents, basically followed a pattern and system of bringing
them up. But, because they are two different individuals, we had to apply a
different approach for both. We have made our mistakes and learnt from them,
but believe me, there are none in this world who are “Perfect Parents”.
All
children have the ability to press our most tender buttons as parents. Though
some children have a more decisive attitude on how and when to press those
buttons. I will be penning down my views on how to cope, encourage and move
around these sticky situations that may benefit not just our children but the
entire family and mind you, these are my own personal views and ideas. I could
be wrong too. Happy Parenting.
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